How's Your Sex Life?

A recent article in the New York Times
http://well.blogs.nytimes.com/2011/03/22/sex-and-the-long-term-relationship/
begins with the question: "Are you happy with the frequency of sex in your relationship?" While most couples acknowledge the importance of a sexual relationship, few couples know to talk about it except to complain there is too much or too little. Here are some tips to start the conversation:

• Think about your ideal sexual relationship
• What brings you pleasure?
• What doesn't feel good?
• What would you like to try?
• Be willing to share your ideas with your partner.
• Even more important, be open to hearing your partner's thoughts.
• Try something new that appeals to both of you.
• Have fun! After all, sex can be playful.